tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6676895059097144513.post8689005029207347892..comments2024-01-10T09:18:40.810-08:00Comments on Red Tin Heart..: ~Red Tin Heart~http://www.blogger.com/profile/06671156484674719228noreply@blogger.comBlogger32125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6676895059097144513.post-52191559622575386782008-03-07T16:49:00.000-08:002008-03-07T16:49:00.000-08:00My dear dear NitaI so much feel you pain.God Bless...My dear dear Nita<BR/>I so much feel you pain.<BR/>God Bless You<BR/>I will be praying that soon the pain won't be so hard. <BR/><BR/>Love You<BR/>Pattipchickkihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01799285598149624631noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6676895059097144513.post-4346774096398142982008-03-04T04:43:00.000-08:002008-03-04T04:43:00.000-08:00No one should tell anyone how long they should gri...No one should tell anyone how long they should grieve. It's a very callous thing to say to someone in my opinion.<BR/><BR/>You do what you need to do to get by, even if it is day by day. Someone once told me "Small steps over time take you a long way". I was going through a very rough time at that point and couldn't even see how to get out of the situation that I got myself into - honestly at the time, I thought it was a corny saying and it didn't seem to make sense to me because I couldn't even decide what these little steps should be. But, this saying seems so true for you now. It's going to take a long time (and you take as long as you want or need to) but all the little things that you do for yourself, the memories that you share with us, the things others do for you, they will help you lessen the grief over time.Jenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06954634642086370523noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6676895059097144513.post-86691414880891781842008-02-29T21:06:00.000-08:002008-02-29T21:06:00.000-08:00Colette: We have more in common than we know. My J...Colette: We have more in common than we know. My John always wanted to go to Ireland and that was a dream of ours. Love Nita~Red Tin Heart~https://www.blogger.com/profile/06671156484674719228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6676895059097144513.post-31541795456830347442008-02-29T21:04:00.000-08:002008-02-29T21:04:00.000-08:00Susan: That is beautiful! And I don't care who wro...Susan: That is beautiful! And I don't care who wrote it. I love it... Love Nita~Red Tin Heart~https://www.blogger.com/profile/06671156484674719228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6676895059097144513.post-6123241455428251792008-02-29T21:02:00.000-08:002008-02-29T21:02:00.000-08:00Tangled Stitch: We all do have our own timetable. ...Tangled Stitch: We all do have our own timetable. Thank you.. Love Nita~Red Tin Heart~https://www.blogger.com/profile/06671156484674719228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6676895059097144513.post-32579865671552632952008-02-29T21:01:00.000-08:002008-02-29T21:01:00.000-08:00Laurie: I am praying so much that He guides me too...Laurie: I am praying so much that He guides me too. I feel like I am leaning on God non-stop. It hurts so much.. Love Nita~Red Tin Heart~https://www.blogger.com/profile/06671156484674719228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6676895059097144513.post-2014010140965644312008-02-29T21:00:00.000-08:002008-02-29T21:00:00.000-08:00Andre: Thank you for your words they help.. love n...Andre: Thank you for your words they help.. love nita~Red Tin Heart~https://www.blogger.com/profile/06671156484674719228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6676895059097144513.post-36395908433728977732008-02-29T20:59:00.000-08:002008-02-29T20:59:00.000-08:00Dominique: It felt right to go. I was so happy tha...Dominique: It felt right to go. I was so happy that we did. We got to John's Ireland that he always wanted to go to. Even if it was a movie. There were so many similiarities to John. Love Nita~Red Tin Heart~https://www.blogger.com/profile/06671156484674719228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6676895059097144513.post-68481853102756426632008-02-29T20:57:00.000-08:002008-02-29T20:57:00.000-08:00Jeannie: You are very comforting... Love nitaJeannie: You are very comforting... Love nita~Red Tin Heart~https://www.blogger.com/profile/06671156484674719228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6676895059097144513.post-79437372597457514542008-02-29T20:55:00.000-08:002008-02-29T20:55:00.000-08:00Kimberly: Thank you. We need prayers. love nitaKimberly: Thank you. We need prayers. love nita~Red Tin Heart~https://www.blogger.com/profile/06671156484674719228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6676895059097144513.post-42920674409487859352008-02-29T20:54:00.001-08:002008-02-29T20:54:00.001-08:00Mary: Thank you for your kind words.. I will pray ...Mary: Thank you for your kind words.. I will pray for your friend. Love Nita~Red Tin Heart~https://www.blogger.com/profile/06671156484674719228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6676895059097144513.post-74639487616542857842008-02-29T20:54:00.000-08:002008-02-29T20:54:00.000-08:00Donna: You are in my heart too. I hope you have a ...Donna: You are in my heart too. I hope you have a great weekend. love nita~Red Tin Heart~https://www.blogger.com/profile/06671156484674719228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6676895059097144513.post-90626371440655423712008-02-29T20:53:00.000-08:002008-02-29T20:53:00.000-08:00Deby: I think your right, it takes baby steps. lov...Deby: I think your right, it takes baby steps. love nita~Red Tin Heart~https://www.blogger.com/profile/06671156484674719228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6676895059097144513.post-5124936829921522462008-02-29T20:52:00.000-08:002008-02-29T20:52:00.000-08:00Vickie: Thank you very much Vickie. You are very k...Vickie: Thank you very much Vickie. You are very kind. love nita~Red Tin Heart~https://www.blogger.com/profile/06671156484674719228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6676895059097144513.post-47032355480221231022008-02-29T20:50:00.000-08:002008-02-29T20:50:00.000-08:00Bobbie: Thank you.. I pray God keeps you close to ...Bobbie: Thank you.. I pray God keeps you close to Him too dear Bobbie. love nita~Red Tin Heart~https://www.blogger.com/profile/06671156484674719228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6676895059097144513.post-32045951522373524042008-02-29T20:49:00.000-08:002008-02-29T20:49:00.000-08:00Robin: It was hard but it also was good. I could r...Robin: It was hard but it also was good. I could relate to her on so many levels, even though it is only a movie. <BR/> When she kept calling him on his phone to hear his message... I broke down so bad because I have called my cell phone to hear his messages to me so often. Just to hear his voice..<BR/> It showed the steps of grief.<BR/> And I look for signs of hope daily, and you praying for me gives me that. love nita~Red Tin Heart~https://www.blogger.com/profile/06671156484674719228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6676895059097144513.post-62703127657106314822008-02-29T20:45:00.000-08:002008-02-29T20:45:00.000-08:00Mimi: You don't have to say anthing.. Just leaving...Mimi: You don't have to say anthing.. Just leaving a comment says it all. And thank you for your prayers. love nita~Red Tin Heart~https://www.blogger.com/profile/06671156484674719228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6676895059097144513.post-50678906835278246802008-02-29T20:06:00.000-08:002008-02-29T20:06:00.000-08:00My dear friend, my John was Irish from Wexford in ...My dear friend, my John was Irish from Wexford in Ireland. My heart is with you. You are much braver than I; I could have never gone to see that movie so early on. On the other hand, I can see that it might have been cathartic. I think of you every day, mentally holding your hand, knowing full well what you are going through. Love, ColetteA bird in the handhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04722441286099105034noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6676895059097144513.post-6720285400889983502008-02-29T18:02:00.000-08:002008-02-29T18:02:00.000-08:00When darkness seems your only companion,tears drop...When darkness seems your only companion,tears drop without warning, and grief holds you captive, I pray God's love will wrap around you and bring you peace. (I didn't write this, Nita, but I feel it for you just the same.)Susan @ Blackberry Creekhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16422203856244038266noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6676895059097144513.post-7235572780398500202008-02-29T13:10:00.000-08:002008-02-29T13:10:00.000-08:00My thoughts and prayers are with you. Everyone ha...My thoughts and prayers are with you. Everyone has their own timetable so don't worry that your's has not come yet. Bless you and your family.Tangled Stitchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04187930600143603801noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6676895059097144513.post-16355289781441489272008-02-29T13:02:00.000-08:002008-02-29T13:02:00.000-08:00Nita, I am so sorry for the aloneness you are fee...Nita, <BR/>I am so sorry for the aloneness you are feeling right now. This makes my heart ache for you and Elizabeth. I can't imagine a more alone place than to be without the love of your heart and soul. I am praying that the Lord tenderly guides you in this valley you are in. Only He can heal the broken heart and bring joy and hope again, and He will. Only you will know when this time comes because you will feel it in there, lifting the sadness one little piece at a time.<BR/><BR/>Love, Laurie in Ca.Laurie in Ca.https://www.blogger.com/profile/15599832324966859946noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6676895059097144513.post-42936093756086268332008-02-29T10:44:00.000-08:002008-02-29T10:44:00.000-08:00Dear Nita,I'm thinking of you everyday and pray th...Dear Nita,<BR/>I'm thinking of you everyday and pray that you and your children find comfort in any small way possible. Many hugs and love.<BR/><BR/>AndreaThe Artful Eyehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00004135813140464018noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6676895059097144513.post-60927353278676181742008-02-29T10:42:00.000-08:002008-02-29T10:42:00.000-08:00Hi Nita, I dont think anyone can get over l...Hi Nita,<BR/> I dont think anyone can get over losing someone special.Knowing that you wont see them again is hard, and you will miss that person terribly . I know people say it gets a little easier with time.Perhaps thats it it gets easier?. But there is no time scale it could take lots of time for it to be easier . You go with how you feel. <BR/> You did well to go to the cinema and see a movie . <BR/> You are doing well , you are taliking through your blog and talking about how you feel. x DominiqueNo one is you ...& that's your power https://www.blogger.com/profile/00132573188639516605noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6676895059097144513.post-69199901393736875052008-02-29T10:23:00.000-08:002008-02-29T10:23:00.000-08:00Dear Nita, just one day at a time. A second, a mi...Dear Nita, just one day at a time. A second, a minute, a step at a time. That's all that matters, your minute right now. I promise you everything will be okay.<BR/><BR/>JeannieMeMeMehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17421252870718878599noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6676895059097144513.post-55725347389459241692008-02-29T08:11:00.000-08:002008-02-29T08:11:00.000-08:00nita,i am so sorry for your breaking heart and for...nita,i am so sorry for your breaking heart and for elizabeths.....i can't even imagine the pain you are going through....i keep you in my heart and prayers.<BR/>hugs,<BR/>kimberlykimberlyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08958903433838099896noreply@blogger.com