Red Tin Heart..: Most people are so self involved, me included, they we fail to see others needs. There are many who just need our encouragment. They are faced with tough decisions...I have had tough choices to make. The biggest one, I have faced. Is the fact I may always be alone. My standards are high. Because I don't want an unfaithful partner. I don't want a drunk. I want someone who loves God and serves him. I want someone who thinks of my feelings and considers me their equal. Not beneath them. I want someone to hold my hand when I am scared. To hold me at night. To be partners. Someone who has it together... Because I am so wounded that right now. I don't. I just want another chance to live.